when mental say, "no go!!" then no go it is,..



wake up in the morning in a rainy day,.. went to the kitchen to make mamee spicy curry mixed with ramlee chicken frankfurt, and prepared iced milo also bread with sweetened creamer,.. sitting in front tv and watch MHI,.. feeling full, going to turn on the modem because last night happen to have thunderstorm,.. online on facebook write a status, divided into three because 'encikfacebook' interfered in the middle then its sequence was continued in blogger,.. :)


so many things to do, yet don't know what i should do!!


suddenly i feel there's so much things that need to be done, yet procrastinating seems so appealing to me!! i don't know what i should do,.. i would rather sit in front my laptop and watch One Piece series all day long and let tomorrow come and be replaced by another tomorrow,.. my notes started piling, pictures taken got mixed up, room became untidy, pets got unmanaged, dateline for my research project coming near but nothing been done yet, there's still a number of books i bought last year i haven't read yet,.. i had been doing absolutely nothing for the past two days!!!



oh my God, what's happening with me!! my mental power had become weaker and weaker,.. the disbelieve of my potential becoming more intense by days passing on,.. i felt like trapped and locked in my present condition,..

something has to be done,..

keep it on!!


never think that we're unable to do something!!
just bold your heart and do it!!
(Amirah)

stormy weather,..


manoeuvering life would have the same analogy as sailing ship in the sea,.. life would not always be smooth,.. sometimes, strong winds blows, thunder strikes and huge wave throws,.. however we must to give our best and be all-out for it,.. as Allah do not test His believer more than they are capable of,.. we are guaranteed to be able to cope with any type incoming problem - regardless of its severity,.. inside every problem lies a gem of wisdom, which makes us smarter, stronger and able to do better,.. once we solve it,..


"past failure are the guidepost for future success"
(Billy Lim)


thinking of it deeply, there are actually no way for you to fail in life,.. no one can learn from success, as mistakes and failures are the greatest teachers, and you will become more mature and develop throughout your life moving forward towards your true success,..


"men are disturbed not by things that happen, but by their opinion the things that happen,.."
(Epithetus)




however, always bear in mind that you must always give your full potential in everything you do,.. never be in the lack of respect or taking matters lightly, as by that way you will lose if you are not aware of it,.. play your role in life, serve all your ability to improve yourself to help others,..


"when I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say: I used everything you gave me"
(Etty Syarmila)


lately, i have been sailing in the very stormy weather,.. i lose my grip in almost everything i do - research, friendship, classes, time management, healthcare,.. i lose my morality, slowing down the forward momentum,.. most of the time, my mind could not respond positively to surrounding stimuli,.. i tend to allow my emotions do the talk, rather than listening to my rationality,.. it made me really depressed,.. as i became stuck inside an invisible hole, don't the way out,..

i don't know what to do,.. i share my problems with some of my close friends, however it only ends with wasting their time,.. i am in the state of unaware of my current condition, i really don't know what troubled me,..


"obstacles would not destroy your vision, but your attitude will,.."
(Winnie Vincent)


i felt really afraid, i am unable to cope with my own invisible problem,.. as time goes on, the collateral damage greatly accumulate,.. i really need to get out of this situation!! as the damage reach the threshold, i would be in a total disaster,..


AMAN!! WAKE UP!! FIGHT IT!!

leveraging,..


to gain that which is worth having,
it may be necessary to lose everything,..
(Lenny Niyong)

dare to be different!!


...the reason why most people don't succeed is because of their fear to be different...

(Robert T. Kiyosaki)

big-hats-no-cattle,..


My business does not look pretty. I don't play the part...don't act it...When my British partners first met me, they thought I was one of our truck drivers... They looked all over my office, looked at everyone but me. Then, the senior guy of the group said, "Oh, we forgot we were in Texas!" I don't own bug hats, but I have a lot of cattle.

(Texan Buckskin)

financial toothache,..


(adapted from Increase your Financial IQ: Robert Kiyosaki)

"having a money problem is like having a toothache,.. if you do not handle the toothache, the toothache makes you feel bad,.. if you feel bad, you may not do well at work because you are irritable,.. not fixing the toothache can lead to further medical complications because it is easy for germs to breed and spread from your mouth,.. one day, you lose your job because you have been missing work due to your chronic illness,.. without a job, you cannot pay your rent,.. if you fail to solve the rent money, you are on the street, homeless, in poor health, eating out of garbage cans, and you still have the toothache,.."




many people do not solve their financial problems when they are small and at the toothache stage,.. instead of solving the problem, they make it worse by ignoring it or not solving the root of the problem,.. for example, when short of money, many people use their credit cards to cover the shortfall,.. soon, they have credit card bills piling up and creditors hounding them for payment,.. to solve the problem, they take out a home equity loan to pay off their credit cards,.. the problem is they keep using the credit cards,.. now, they have a home equity mortgage to pay off and more credit cards,..

to solve this credit problem, they get new credit cards to pay off the old credit cards,.. feeling depressed because of mounting money problems, they use the new cards to take a vacation,.. soon, they cannot pay their mortgage or their credit cards, and decide to declare bankruptcy,.. the trouble with declaring bankruptcy is that the root of the problem is still there, just like the toothache,..

the root of the problem is a lack of financial intelligence, and the problem caused by a lack of financial intelligence is an inability to solve simple financial problems,.. rather than address the root of the problem - spending habits, in this case -  many ignore the problem,.. if you don't pull a weed up by the root, and only cut off the top, it will come back quicker and bigger,.. the same is true for your financial problems,..

(Robert T. Kiyosaki)
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