stormy weather,..


manoeuvering life would have the same analogy as sailing ship in the sea,.. life would not always be smooth,.. sometimes, strong winds blows, thunder strikes and huge wave throws,.. however we must to give our best and be all-out for it,.. as Allah do not test His believer more than they are capable of,.. we are guaranteed to be able to cope with any type incoming problem - regardless of its severity,.. inside every problem lies a gem of wisdom, which makes us smarter, stronger and able to do better,.. once we solve it,..


"past failure are the guidepost for future success"
(Billy Lim)


thinking of it deeply, there are actually no way for you to fail in life,.. no one can learn from success, as mistakes and failures are the greatest teachers, and you will become more mature and develop throughout your life moving forward towards your true success,..


"men are disturbed not by things that happen, but by their opinion the things that happen,.."
(Epithetus)




however, always bear in mind that you must always give your full potential in everything you do,.. never be in the lack of respect or taking matters lightly, as by that way you will lose if you are not aware of it,.. play your role in life, serve all your ability to improve yourself to help others,..


"when I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say: I used everything you gave me"
(Etty Syarmila)


lately, i have been sailing in the very stormy weather,.. i lose my grip in almost everything i do - research, friendship, classes, time management, healthcare,.. i lose my morality, slowing down the forward momentum,.. most of the time, my mind could not respond positively to surrounding stimuli,.. i tend to allow my emotions do the talk, rather than listening to my rationality,.. it made me really depressed,.. as i became stuck inside an invisible hole, don't the way out,..

i don't know what to do,.. i share my problems with some of my close friends, however it only ends with wasting their time,.. i am in the state of unaware of my current condition, i really don't know what troubled me,..


"obstacles would not destroy your vision, but your attitude will,.."
(Winnie Vincent)


i felt really afraid, i am unable to cope with my own invisible problem,.. as time goes on, the collateral damage greatly accumulate,.. i really need to get out of this situation!! as the damage reach the threshold, i would be in a total disaster,..


AMAN!! WAKE UP!! FIGHT IT!!

leveraging,..


to gain that which is worth having,
it may be necessary to lose everything,..
(Lenny Niyong)

dare to be different!!


...the reason why most people don't succeed is because of their fear to be different...

(Robert T. Kiyosaki)

big-hats-no-cattle,..


My business does not look pretty. I don't play the part...don't act it...When my British partners first met me, they thought I was one of our truck drivers... They looked all over my office, looked at everyone but me. Then, the senior guy of the group said, "Oh, we forgot we were in Texas!" I don't own bug hats, but I have a lot of cattle.

(Texan Buckskin)

financial toothache,..


(adapted from Increase your Financial IQ: Robert Kiyosaki)

"having a money problem is like having a toothache,.. if you do not handle the toothache, the toothache makes you feel bad,.. if you feel bad, you may not do well at work because you are irritable,.. not fixing the toothache can lead to further medical complications because it is easy for germs to breed and spread from your mouth,.. one day, you lose your job because you have been missing work due to your chronic illness,.. without a job, you cannot pay your rent,.. if you fail to solve the rent money, you are on the street, homeless, in poor health, eating out of garbage cans, and you still have the toothache,.."




many people do not solve their financial problems when they are small and at the toothache stage,.. instead of solving the problem, they make it worse by ignoring it or not solving the root of the problem,.. for example, when short of money, many people use their credit cards to cover the shortfall,.. soon, they have credit card bills piling up and creditors hounding them for payment,.. to solve the problem, they take out a home equity loan to pay off their credit cards,.. the problem is they keep using the credit cards,.. now, they have a home equity mortgage to pay off and more credit cards,..

to solve this credit problem, they get new credit cards to pay off the old credit cards,.. feeling depressed because of mounting money problems, they use the new cards to take a vacation,.. soon, they cannot pay their mortgage or their credit cards, and decide to declare bankruptcy,.. the trouble with declaring bankruptcy is that the root of the problem is still there, just like the toothache,..

the root of the problem is a lack of financial intelligence, and the problem caused by a lack of financial intelligence is an inability to solve simple financial problems,.. rather than address the root of the problem - spending habits, in this case -  many ignore the problem,.. if you don't pull a weed up by the root, and only cut off the top, it will come back quicker and bigger,.. the same is true for your financial problems,..

(Robert T. Kiyosaki)
Increase your Financial IQ

employees & self-employed vs. business-owner & investor,..


(adapted from CASHFLOW Quadrant: Robert Kiyosaki)

once upon a time there was this quaint little village,.. it was a great place to live except for one problem,.. the village had no water unless it rained,.. to solve this problem once and for all, the village elders decided to put out to bid the contract to have water delivered to the village on a daily basis,.. two people volunteered to take on the task and the elders awarded the contract to both of them,.. they felt that a little competition would keep prices low and insure a back up supply of water,..

the first of the two people who won the contract, Ed, immediate ran out, bought two galvanized steel buckets and began running back and forth along the trail to the lake which was a mile away,.. he immediately began making money as he labored morning to dusk hauling water from the lake with his two buckets,.. he would empty them into the large concrete holding tank the village had built,.. each morning he had to get up before the rest of the village awoke to make sure there was enough water for the village when they wanted it,.. it was a hard work, but he was very happy to be making money for having one of the two exclusive contracts for this business,..

the second winning contractor, Bill, disappeared for a while,.. he was not seen for months, which made Ed very happy since he had no competition,.. Ed was making all the money,..

instead of buying two buckets to compete with Ed, Bill had written a business plan, created a corporation, found four investors, employed a president to do the work, and returned six months later with a construction crew,.. within a year, his team had built a large volume stainless steel pipeline which connected the village to the lake,..



at the grand opening celebration, Bill announced that his water was cleaner than Ed's water,.. Bill knew that there had been complaints about dirt in Ed's water,.. Bill also announced that he could supply the village with water 24 hours a day, 7 days a week,.. Ed could only deliver water on the weekdays,.. he did not work on weekends,.. then, Bill announced that he would charge 75% less than Ed did for higher quality and more reliable source of water,.. the village cheered and ran immediately for the faucet at the end of Bill's pipeline,..

in order to compete, Ed immediately lowered his rates by 75%, bought two more buckets, added covers to his buckets and began hauling four buckets at each trip,.. in order to provide better service, he hired his two sons to give him a hand for the night shift and on weekends,..

when his boys went off to college, he said to them,
"hurry back because someday this business will belong to you,.."

for some reason, after college, his two sons never returned,.. eventually Ed had employees and union problems,.. the union was demanding higher wages, better benefits, and wanted its members to only haul one bucket at a time,..

Bill, on the other hand, realized that if this village needed water then other villages must need water too,.. he wrote his business plan and went off to sell his high speed, high volume, low cost and clean water delivery system to villages throughout the world,.. he only makes a penny per bucket delivered, but he deliverers billions of buckets of water everyday,.. regardless if he works or not, billions of people consume billions of buckets of water, and all that money pours into his bank account,.. Bill had developed a pipeline to deliver money to himself as well as water to the villages,..

Bill lived happily ever after and Ed worked hard for the rest of his life and had financial problems forever after,..

THE END

(Robert T. Kiyosaki)
CAHSFLOW Quadrant

dare to fail,..


the test of a man is the fight he makes,
    the grit that he daily shows;
the way he stands on his feet and takes
    fate's numerous bumps and blows,
a coward can smile when there's naught to fear,
    when nothing his progress bars;
but it takes a man to stand up and cheer
    while some other fellow stars,..

it isn't the victory, after all,
    but the fight that a brother makes;
the man who, driven against the wall,
    still stands up erect and takes
the blows of fate with his head held high;
    bleeding, and bruished, and pale,
is the man who'll win in the by and by,
for he is the one who DARES TO FAIL,..


**********


every failure is a lesson that drives a person to try a new approach never tried before,..

(Billy Lim)
Dare to Fail 4th Ed.

be the best,..


if you can't be a highway, then just be a trail,..
if you can't be the sun, be a star,..
it isn't by size that you win or fail,
be the best of whatever you are!!
(Douglas Mallock)
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